What are the challenging thing I encounter this semester? Well it is of cause, having a car. One will find people around you asking favour and help. It’s not wrong asking for help nor is it wrong to help others, because we are suppose to bless others with the blessings that we been blessed with. What is the greatest commandment of them all? Love the God thy God with all that you are, and love others as yourself.
But it will become a problem when people around you start expecting from you as a car owner. In other words, it’s hard to be a nice person, a person who helps. Cause people will expect highly on oneself. By saying “NO” will be hard and it as if you have a “gold in your mouth”. Of cause saying “no” with the write reason and not of selfish desire such as, my car will spoil or as such. There is why one needs to discern be it the helper or the helped.
I do admit I’m frustrated as people not helping me at time, but hay is it my pride which is taking over? Did I think of the person who refuses to help me? And must he give me a good reason to say no? is it my right to ask him to help me?
This is what I’ve learn today
As I told my brother on MSN, “Learning to blame is not learning”, but getting up and walk on with God’s provision and asking Him to open up our narrow mind is learning.
But of cause God has his way in this moment of life by not escaping from it but to face it. And I thank God for this experience as experience cannot be bought with gold or silver. Not to fill my heart with bitterness, hate or judgement but to know myself more and rely on his words to change and better me.
Teach me Lord.
Lets not stop the blessing God has blessed us.
Amen!
Hmm true that it's frustrating when ppl who can help doesn't help you. But sometimes, you have to be a good steward and explain nicer. Not keep harping on old issues (eg petrol money......which I was hurt). As far as I'm concerned, I was not angry with you nor I was frustrated up until u said tat issue. It makes me feel as if I'm a bad guy.
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